Jennifer Smith (maiden name Hamm) looking for father

I’m looking for my biological father I’m 30 years old. Was born in St.LouisMo. I was told by my biological mother his name is Phillip Tolie don’t know if I spelled it correctly. I would just like to see a picture of you or meet you. It’s bothered me all my life and I don’t want to leave this world never knowing what you even look like. I’m not asking for anything else. I just want to fill a void. My mother’s name was Shari Hamm. Please help!!